Like Lisa, I also have two cats—Benny and Clementine. If you have cats, you probably know the rule: one litterbox per cat plus one extra. So we have three, spread throughout the house. One in the washroom. One in the far corner of the family room. One in a spare room that nobody really uses.
And here is the thing. I never thought my house smelled like litter. I never noticed any odor when I walked in the door. I figured because I scooped twice a day and used a premium clumping litter, it was handled.
But after that conversation with Lisa, I started paying attention.
Every time I walked into the washroom to scoop, I noticed this warm, thick heaviness in the air that I’d always walked through without thinking. The family room had a faint sourness near that far corner. The spare room had a stale, enclosed quality I only noticed when I focused on it.
Three rooms releasing ammonia around the clock. And ammonia does not stay in one room. It’s a gas. It drifts through hallways, under doors, through the entire house. Every room in my home had some level of it circulating at all times.
The headaches always started in the evening, when Mark and I settled in with all the windows closed. The ammonia from three sources would just accumulate with nowhere to go.
I knew from veterinary school that even low concentrations of ammonia, concentrations your nose has completely adapted to, can trigger headaches, fatigue, sinus congestion, and that thick foggy heaviness that makes your brain feel like it is running at half speed.
But I never connected it to my own home because I couldn’t smell it! I had gone noseblind to my own litterboxes years ago.
Have you ever noticed that you feel more drained at home than you think you should? That you get a stuffy nose in the evening that clears up when you leave for work? That you sleep eight hours and still wake up feeling like you did not rest? That you feel sharper at the office than you ever do at home?
Most people blame it on allergies, or stress, or getting older.
But if you have cats, there is a very real chance the culprit is the air you’re breathing in your own home.
And you would never know, because your nose stopped warning you a long time ago.